Do long distance relationships work?

just found out today my boyfriend will be transferred 3 states away for work. I'm in tears. We have only been dating for 6 months, but I really liked him. He's the first man who's ever treated me like someone special in my 24 years. He's so sweet, affectionate, complimentary, funny, and he makes me smile and laugh so much. I know we're not married or anything, but it hurts so bad. I know sh*t happens, but can this work out? I asked him if he could just tell me what he wants to do with us, like move on or make it work and such, but he won't even tell me right now. Should i just forget about it? It was only 6 months anyway, but I really felt like I found someone special when I met him. If you have dealt with this situation/long distance before, please let me know how to deal with this. I'm so sad. :( Everyone says long distance relationships don't work.Do long distance relationships work?
They can work if you both want them to and put forth the effort. Talk on the phone every day. Not doing things that your significant other wouldn't approve of, even if they don't know about it. Do special things for each other. Always have a visit planned so you have something to look forward to.





My husband and I spent 3 years apart before we got engaged. We live together now (and have been for 3 years) and will be living across the country from each other in a few months. We are in academia and young, so with school, and now jobs (that are always temporary) we're moving around a lot. We'll settle together when we both get tenured.Do long distance relationships work?
no
if you are ment to be together it will work but if not then you wernt dont force anything though, just try and make it work good luck X
sorry it doesn't even work for married folks
sometimes they work and other times they do not work. Maybe he does not know all of the details yet.
depends, if you both actually think that the relationship was working those pass 6 months and that you both really have feelings for one another. Its best to try to talk about what you plan to do instead of waiting at the last minute to mention it again. And you have to think about the possibly that he might end up in another relationship while his away there. Because more than likely this will happen. But if you think about moving there with him, make sure to think about what you maybe leaving behind, and if you truly believe its worth it.


Because there have been so many women that you hear about who were in college, had a family and friends that they left behind. Then later on regret it. So I don't know what else I can say other than its totally up to you, and what you feel is right.
give yourself time to miss him. long distance relationships do work. you must first trust each other and this will make your love stronger.
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It depends for how long he is going to move.. for his all life? or only just few months?? if only for a few months.. just take a chance,. and contuinue with him... IF IT IS FOR LONG TIME... there might be problems,.... At least try to meet him 2 times weekly.. and use mobile fone to contact him.. for daily basis.. if this is not possible.. then there will be problems...


he will adapt him self to his work.. and he might change a bit his attitude.. (maybe he will change.. i mean you will be seeing him as a differnet person.. because the enivronment where you are in.. make an affect on yr attitude)..


Take a chance... if you see unpleasnet changes.. don;t be upset.. move on... 24 is not big.. you can find another one.. (though many men nowadays are not so serious)
long distance relatioships work only with ture love that if your relationship with him is a ture love
hi well i think it does not work if he loves you he shoud take you with him so think about it if i love some one i wont do that
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