I have never been in a Long Distance Relationship and it's A LOT harder than I thought it would be....
My boyfriend is in the Marines and is stationed a state away. We have known each other since Elementary school, but were never friends. We met again on Halloween of 2008 and having been dating ever since, when we are able.
We have met half way a few times for the weekend and I went there for a week over New Years. We talk on the phone a few times a week and text every day, but it is still difficult to have a relationship since we can only see each other every few months.
He will be home in September for good which is comforting. I like him a lot and I think he's worth the wait, but its still hard.
Does anyone have some good advice for me? I could use it. Thanks!How do you deal with a Long Distance Relationship?
just look forward to september, trust me it could be much worse.
When you really love someone you wont question the waiting because you need to see them for whatever small amount of time you can get.
GoodluckHow do you deal with a Long Distance Relationship?
They are truly horrible and there is nothing you can do about it either which is horrid. just be glad you have some form of contact although it isn't all you hope for.
jeez all you gotta do is wait for september then hes there for good...my girlfriend is in italy and im in california..try that....and shes coming in june but just 3 months
im absolutley sorry. but my long distance relationship didntt work.
i had no faith.. so i didnt work out
i know that mightt be a let down..
but honsetlyy. if you feel it isnt going to work.
it probably dont.
if you truelyy love the person. you'll be ablee to waitt. (:
and you'll be absolutley sure thats the person you lovee.
It is hard. I've done it a couple times and it just didn't work for me (non mil in my case) because I'm just not built to stand the time apart as well as other's with different personalities can.
If it's going to work, good, but if you feel you'd be happier single or dating someone who lives closer, talk to your current boyfriend to see if he has any new ideas and if you can't work it out (besides him just begging to keep you) then just let this one go.
It won't be the end of the world.
If you are in a commited relationship with a future towards marraige (this decided with the two of you not you just thinking it ';might be';) then I'd look at relocating.
i deal with them by putting myself in a situation were i don't have to deal with them
Its hard, i know (my bf was in the Navy) LDR's aren't for everyone but if you can handle it its very rewarding. Keep yourself busy, Find a hobby or take up excercising. Maybe you can get in one of those online forums for Military relationships they help a lot believe me, it always helps to talk to someone who's in the same boat as you. Hang in there if you really like him, it'll be worth the wait believe me.
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