Thursday, August 12, 2010

How do you deal with a long distance relationship?

I miss my love so much we are 4.5 hours apart ...I see him about every 3 or 4 weeks but I still don't think this is enough. We can't see each other more because of work though. We go to college together but these last 3 months have been super tough. What do you suggest?How do you deal with a long distance relationship?
There is nothing that can make it better. I see mine once a month also, but I miss him constantly. Distance blows!How do you deal with a long distance relationship?
At any age, college or even later, long distance relationships are too tough to succeed because the time apart is too great and the time together is fleeting. Plus, there are usually people around you (or him) everyday that are as intriguing and attractive. I'd say bid it farewell and find someone new closer to where you are.
To all the people posting negative things here...





Though long distance often ends badly, it doesn't mean it NEVER works. My BF and I have been doing fine, and I know people who have gotten things to work long distance.





Anyway, just make sure you text throughout the day and call before bed--that makes it easiest for me. You should also keep something of eachothers--my BF left me a jacket that smells like his cologne and it helps me to sleep when I'm missing him.
I lived about 500 miles away from my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we are still together and strong. he now goes to college here. Its not that bad at all. It just costs lots of money to fly back and forth, but worth it. If you BOTH want it, it will work.





If you aren't a strong person and need a boyfriend next to you with everything you do in life then yes get rid of him.





You need to willing, you can just expect everything to perfect.
when you guys arent talking(which i suggest you do a lot of....whether it be on the phone or texting) then you should try to distract yourself. keep yourself busy.thats what i did when my boyfriend and i had a long distance relationship. when we werent talking and i wasnt busy with sports or homework i would hang out with friends and just try to not think about how far away we were.
Just think of it as your time apart is increasing your love and desire for one another. If you truly want to be together, one or both of you are going to have to make a sacrifice(s). Is it possible for you to work closer to him?
break up with him, find something to do to keep your mind off of it, call each other alot, get a web cam so you guys can talk and see each other.
just email and call him and IM eachother as much as you can, it'll work out if you really love eachother
Talk to each other over the phone before bed, text throughout the day and have webcam dates!
well long term relationshipe dont last very long try and try and try but if your forcing it, chances are its not meant to be





sorry goo dluck


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U both need to talk and decide.





1.A Phone call everyday even if its fr 5 mins





2.E-mails





3.Online Chat............Good Luck
move in together slowly if can web cam text call frequently
Long distance relationships never work. Find away to be closer to him or move on.
well summer is almost over, so you shouldnt have to worry about it for much longer (:
End it. It always ends nasty, so just cut off clean before it's too late.
You dont make it work. They never work. Call it off.
Skype!
DUMP HIS SORRY A$$
get a hobby
oh cry me a river my boyfriend lives in canada and i live in the U.S, youll be fine.

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