Thursday, August 12, 2010

How to deal with a long distance relationship over the summer?

My boyfriend and I go to college together and now we are home for the summer. What can we do besides talk on the phone and keep our relationship healthy?How to deal with a long distance relationship over the summer?
Try writing poems, letters, songs, drawings, paintings or anything else that express your feelings for each other. You can try learning something to give you more in common with each other or work out to surprise him with a look or grow your hair longer. Try doing things that shows your feelings or improves your relationship. Some of these things take time and it keeps you focused on your relationshipHow to deal with a long distance relationship over the summer?
people have given you an ample amount of good suggestions on what to do so ill just say that you dont really have to try that hard. if you go to college with him, youll be spending plenty of time with him for most of the year. this little break could be good to give yall a little air and besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder. (keep in mind that im not saying to essentially break up with him for the summer im saying dont focus on spending every single second with him cause he needs time with his friend and some vacation from his normal life, including you)_
Communicate as much as you guys can. If you want it to work and you are willing to try for it it will. Phone, email, pic messages work, and you can always video chat...that way you can see eachothers face as much as you would like and still have the freedom to do what you want/need.
i would try and visit each other's town. send surpise letters and care packages with simple small gifts, maybe something you made yourself. try chatting on a web cam or sending lots of pictures to each other so you still feel connected to each other's daily lives.
I'm guessing you guys say you ';love'; each other?


If you really do, then you could go the whole summer without caring. You could actually go years without talking to him and still want him, if your really in love.
visits, and video conversations with a web cam and e mails. and letters too cuz there more personal. its hard, but its only 2/3 months! you can do it
talk to your parents about having him visit you

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