I fell in love with a man who is bipolar. He is from another country and he had to go to receive treatment. We are very good friends and even thou many things were left un-said, the chemistry and attraction is palpable. Any pointers on how to deal with this situation will be thankfulHow to deal with long distance relationships?
Don't commit yourself to something that isn't there. . . yet.
I understand the chemistry, but things are as you said ';unsaid.'; Keep him as a friend, and if time and distance allows you to pursue a relationship go for it. But in the meanwhile don't close yourself off to someone who may be closer and ready to take that step.How to deal with long distance relationships?
cut them loose!!
Firstly, is he still communicating with you? If you have the means when on vacation, visit him and see how he and his people will receive you. Follow you heart for if the chemistry is true then he will be feeling somthing
Are you seriously trying to have a relationship with a bi-polar person who lives in another country on the premiss of things that went unsaid. Honestly you need to talk to a shrink.
trust
While you may think you love him and it's forever, you shouldn't be closed to other relationships. It's healthier and he should be happy that you're living a normal life that doesn't depend on him. If he doesn't accept that it's a good hint that you should get loose, because a bipolar can become dangerous, can't he?
How long is he gone for? If it's for good than I am sorry but you are better off cutting your loses now. But if he's only gone for a little while, and you too still talk than keep hope, but don't make your life around him. And forget about the bipolar, if he takes his medication and has accepted the disorder than it shouldn't be a factor in your decision, you understand the disorder.
I was involved in a long distance relationship(not to scare you) but the guy left me to marry his ex girlfriend after almost 2 years of a relationship, he too was from a different country. He was pleading to get me back, I told him NO. The reason is he claims that his girlfriend lied to him to break up the relationship.
Anyway, like everyone else said that bi polar thing is insignificant. If he takes his meds and keeps on them he will be fine. You should do research on it yourself if you are concerned about it and if you really care about the guy.
Have you met him yet, that is a big THING is meeting him seeing what he is like and if you click well good for you. That is important.
If you want to talk about it more, I will be more than happy to talk to you. :)Leave me a message.
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