Ok im 13 years old and the last time i was with a girl was in the summer of 2008. After that i was never the same again. I keep trying to find a way to deal with this and every since i go on here and answer others questions to ease the pain. Then i met a girl named Janet at my friend's school. It went so well that we exchanged numbers in 10 minutes. Then that night i got my first french kiss. Every since i've felt stronger, but ow it seems to fade. Anyway I haven't seen her since then like in November and the relationship has been going good. don'tt ask me how. But it takes its toll.Becausee of the distance we have an emotional relationship. Not saying there is no physical in it, but mostly emotions. I cant handle it all. Im use to physical more than emotional, but with this distance i only see her often. I feel like i should end it, but ever since that kiss i've felt like i cant go on without her.(first kiss duh) And she thinks im Mr. Perfect and idon't want her to feel bad. I cant crush a girl so beautiful. She said i could see her more if her mom approves of me, but come on how the hell am i going to meet her mom? But i still feel like i have the power to end it. I dont want to, this is the first emotional relationship i've basically had.. Help a guy who is use to physical then emotion relationships?How to deal with a long distance emotional relationship?
ok... I'm 13 too and I had a long distance thingy b4 and it didn't work out.. For a long distance relationship 2 work u have 2 b able 2 make sacrifices.. In this case u won't b able 2 c her n do watever physical stuff ur missing but If u rly feel strongly about her tthen youlll b willing 2 sacrifice things for her....love isn't all abot physical stuff...aloe of it is emotional and not physical but if all u want is physical then you done even need a gf.. U just need 2 stay away 4rom ppl in general.. Talk 2 her about seeing her more and makes bigger efort 2 c her be meet her mom.. Best of luck!!!!! :)How to deal with a long distance emotional relationship?
Did you say you were 13? Or did you mean 33?
Dump her
find another girl
you are 13. a child. long distance ';relationships'; don't work, especially when you are young. i'm hoping you haven't ';been with a girl'; as in, having sex, because that would be ridiculous.
dont fall for the trap. you get all emotional and then they dont want you no more. you turn into there ';friend'; because there friends are emotional. this isnt about you. its about how she can control you. are you gonna be a pet or a man?
don't dump her but tell you how you feel about it. If you like her so much if you dump her it may feel like the right thing to do at the time but later you will miss her so much it will kill you inside.
If she's that hot then she might be cheating.
Nah I'm only joking bro, but I used to have a relationship like that, I dated a girl that I only saw on Wednesdays at church when I was a Christian, and that was only if she was there.
It SEEMED like the perfect relationship, I called her a lot and talked with her, she ';loved'; me. Then she started ignoring me and went to a dance with another guy.
Not saying it's gonna happen to you, but keep your eyes and ears open for anything. Call her every day as much as you can, kind of keep an eye on her, but don't be out in the open with it, girls don't like guys who spy on them.
If that's not her first relationship, then you better keep up with that stuff.
Look, your 13, you got many girls to come! No need to settle, but dont be a jerk either. If you want to move on just do it. Its better to end things sooner then dragging it out. You will only hurt her more. Anyways, she will get over it, girls always do.
dude dump her!
Get the pussy on the side. It'll help.
Long distance is something that can only be withstood by people who have already been together for a long time and only when it is a short term separation. Even then, it can cause lots of problems. The timing just isn't right, as is often the case with romance.
Just say you're sorry but it's time for you to move on and you wish she lived near. A long distance relationship without the time put in beforehand is just an imaginary relationship.
I am sure she is great, you can break up with great people, not just ones you don't like. It's ok.
yea i agree with the first guy.... ur 13?
thats a hole lot for a 13 year old.... and ur emotionally tied from jhust one kiss?? i think its just a sorta phase.... like i remember wen i got my first kiss i was in love with that girl, but its a phase
eventually ull snap out of it
if nothing else works eat some chochlate and then get a happy ending massage
Alright you need to move on.You can't be in a long distance relationship.The girl you met in the summer let her go!!She old news.Forget the other one,too.Get you a good girl who's around.---------------------------------鈥?br>
IT'S REALLY A PHASE YOU'RE GOING THROUGH .AS YOU AGE YOU'LL UNDERSTAND MORE.
well as you urself knows very well that attraction is in the relationship, you will definately tackle the situation. so do wat ur oing.
At 13 all this sounds like to much pressure. I hope you don't mean you were having sex (you are way to young). You should be out and about doing kid things not fretting over adult things.
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