Long Distance Relationships?

My boyfriend and I have a talk yesterday about long distance relationships. He told me that if he ever moved away he would do everything in his power to take me, but he hasn't heard of any long distance relationships working well, while he didn't say he would break up with me if he did move, i get the feeling that was what he meant at least if he couldn't take me.





ANYWAY, that conversation made me wonder how many people think that long distance relationships could work, and what would make them work.





Oh and before i get mean people telling me he doesn't love me, I know he loves me, it is just a situation he never has dealt with before.Long Distance Relationships?
Rul-io number 1: You have to be the most patient person in the whole universe in order fer something like this to work out. I have held on to mine fer a very long time, just recently I went to see her in person and it sucks like...a lot...cause I can't do anything bout it now...being back home and all...TT-TT ANYWAY





Rul-io number 2: Use the handy-dandy MSN (or any other type of messenger you like) and install a web cam and mic so you and him can always remember how you guys look and sound like. You have no idea how easy it can be to ferget.





Rul-io number 3: Try to arrange as many visits as possible~! Seeing each other in person always helps you remember they are a real person XD In my case, it doesn't matter much but to people fresh to it, it wouldn't be a bad idea to keep in contact as much as possible!








Well, I hope this helps a bit...? Heh.





Good luck!!








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it really would depend on how long you`ve been 2 gether and weither or not if you gues have trust in each other
they work. trust me. but you just need to try really really hard, try to control jealousy, and work out problems by talking (not yelling, cussing, or screaming). good luck. i kno its a hard situation, but i'm sure if you two are really in love it will work out.
they can be hard. my sister tried it with her bf, they still talk, but eh. One of you may get jealous and get clingy and bother the other, or you may notice someone else in closer proximity. It really hurt my sister when we moved, so try everything to stay w/ him, but, I'm sorry, it may not be enough
Okayy, My sister and her Boyfriend have been dating for about 7-8months now and they have a long distance relationship. I think it does work if both of you are willing to keep going with the relationship. You cancall eachother, text eachother, e-mail eachother, keep in contact with IM and see eachother every now and again. =)
i think they could work, but with a lot of effort. you would have to communicate and trust eachother a lot. you'd have to make plans to see eachother as often as you can... good luck
THEY NEVER WORK! SORRY!
I was in a long distance relationship once. I thought it was awesome! We never fought, and when we were together it was a blast, and he always brought me presents! It didn't work out because I was still young and didn't need the seriousness.
u got the internet. u can chat with him on the net
I am currently in a long distance relationship that has been going great for four months now. It has been the best relationship of my life and I think it's all due to the matter of how much you really love each other that keeps the relationship strong and intact. In the majority of the cases, ldrs don't tend to work out b/c the long distance proves as a distraction for some ppl. However, I think by calling, emailing, texting, or just chatting to each other by saying how much you love them will keep the relationship going steady. It may be difficult for your bf to handle b/c he has never dealt with this before, but give it a try, and if you both truly love each other, then everything will and should work out perfectly. =)





Good luck.
i am in along distance relationship with this boy from Shreveport, we have been together since i was in the 8, but i moved in the 9th grade now I'm a senior in in high school and our relationship is still stronger as a matter of fact it's stronger and better than ever because we have built that trust bond between the 2 of us and it's wonderful..Friend that's all you have to do is have trust and i promise u it will work....I'm going back after graduation to be with him and to go to LSUS!!!!...


G00D Lu(K!!!!!i hope it all works out for the be++er
That all depends on the two people involved in the relationship. Long distance relationships can work they require a lot of communication, understanding, patience, and money (visits). If both of you have never been in one before then the only way to see is to actually be in one with one another.


It really just depends on the both of you and how you feel about it while going through it.
Mine did not work. What failed? A lack of communication. So make sure that you guys know to try and communicate as much as possible.
you will know how much he loves you when he moves away and doesn't ask you to join him as his wife. anything short of that will be a clear indication of how much he doesn't love or respect you. asking you to move with him as his girlfriend, is an insult. of course, i'm sure you wouldn't agree with that. however, you will see i'm right after you move and shack up with him for a few years and still no sign of his making any real commitment. don't be foolish and hold yourself in such little regard. if he doesn't ask you to marry him before he leaves, then let him go and get on with your life.
Long distance? How does that work? It doesn't !! Come on, If you found a guy that's close and and around you would move on and not even think of the guy who is not around in person and just talking to you on the phone. You know you would dis him in a second. The guy that is keeping in contact with you just by talking to you and just hearing his voice you would get board after a while and you know you would settle for a guy that is there in person. And that's why it would not work. so get it strait girl.