if anyone out there can share how they have dealt with a long distance relationship that would be greatly appreciated.How have you dealt with a long distance relationship?
Dude. My heart goes out to you. I've been in two L.D. relationships. The first one was in Israel, the second one was across the county. So I know the pain you're feeling. My advice: as painful as it may be, don't build your dreams on this relationship. She lives in Taiwan, right? What are the REALISTIC chances she'd move to the States? Are you willing to move to Taiwan? If not, you can't expect her to leave her home. Besides, do you really want to be responsible for her leaving her friends, family-the people she grew up loving? If you're really feeling love for her, you love her too much to expect that of her. So I'd ';fade out'; the romance--keep in touch with email %26amp; snail mail, but less frequently. My Israeli ';ex'; eventually met someone %26amp; got married. Now i'm living with a guy who I love WORLDS more than I ever did Mr. Israel. As far as the cross-country guy, the pain of being so close yet so far away did us in. The pain, longing %26amp; suffering isn't worth it. When two people have very established lives in two completely separate places, it just simply won't work. I'm sorry, but believe me when I say I know what you're going through.How have you dealt with a long distance relationship?
its going on 4 years but id have no problem waiting 40. if you love this woman enough eventually, maybe after some LONG lonely nights, you will see that it doesnt matter how long you wait or how old you are until you two can finally be together because she is the one and no one else ever can be.
send emails and keep in touch with her. try and focus on each others needs... it is difficult to know each others needs in a long distance relationship so you have to take extra care to satisfy them in whatever way you can so that neither of you get dissatisfied and cheat. just keep loving her and try to realize that if you love her enough she is worth waiting your ENTIRE life for.
i met a wonderful man on the internet his name is Andre Cosby and we have only been emaling each other since December 2005 and one day he and i are going to meet for real . he lives in the USA and i live in Brisbane Australia
Shelley
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