Monday, August 16, 2010

How can i deal with being in a long distance relationship better?

i am newly in a long distance relationship with my bf of two years.he is doing well it seems but, it is killing me, we've been apart for just 3 months now and it doesn't seem to be getting any easier. help please!!How can i deal with being in a long distance relationship better?
are you apart due to the military or for some other reason??





EDIT Then you should throw your self into your studies and focus on the little time you do get to see him, college life is for having fun and growing up, if you dont start blossoming as a person you will have wasted your college years and he might grow up and away so much that you are left behind. NOT being mean at all, just stay true and have lots to tell him when you do get the chance to meet up. regardsHow can i deal with being in a long distance relationship better?
how long is this long distance?
Try three years...the longer you can keep it going, the more you love him and you need him, it works out for the best in the end
Move on
You should go ask the military women. They're professionals at this subject. ;)
I find that time goes by easier when you have a set date to see each other again. Set a date, and promise each other to make it happen one way or another. Also it's good to get lost in your activities, hobbies, school etc, etc.
If you love him enough you'll endure no matter how long





And yes, how long distance are we talking
TRUST is even more important in a long distance relationship than a regular one. If you can trust him to not be cheating, which is easy with the distance then you should be fine. you guys should plan phone calls for certain times or days of the week and try seeing each other as often as possible. It could be a strong relationship because it'll be based on emotional and social connection rather than physical satisfaction so good luck.
well make sure u can contact him via either, email, telephone or text, and make sure u contact him regulary. Also arange to meet up with him at some point, its not that expensive to travel by train nowadays.





Also from my own experience in long term relationships i find keeping a picture of them and a video/sound recording of my partner very helpful, also if u've got msn and u've got a web cam and a microphone then u can start a video call so u can c him and talk to him at the same time.





if neither of u or just one of u has got msn, a web came and a microphone then i advise u on getting one as its very useful and u can get the whole gear 4 less then 拢20 plus its dead easy 2 set up.





hope this answers ur question.
Be optimistic about your relationship and try most time to communicate. Text messages like brainteaser is a magic anytime to put you on his mind always. Send at-least one interesting question daily and wait for response before sending another. It might generate interesting discussion that will make you nearer to each other even when physically faraway. Wish you well.

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