How to deal with long distance relationships?

Okay so this guy and i met thru myspace BUT we haven't actually met in person yet.... he is 25 im 18. he also has a kid, i dont mind that tho i love kids. :) i REALLY like him already tho. we talk everyday whether its on aim... or myspace or on the phone.


he lives in nj i live in pa. its about an hour and a half away. we've been talking now for about 2 months and again we havent met yet....i was supposed to go see him tomorrow but i dont have a ride there. i wud have taken a bus or train but im broke and so is he ... for now. he doesnt have a car right now... and my mom refuses to take me there cuz she doesnt trust him, or know him, but then again how cud she?? he lives in nj! its not like he can come over whenever he wanted to and just spend like 3 hours here. that wont work. ya know? like i dont wanna just see him once a month what kind of a relationship is that?


So my question is, do u think we will last... ya know the whole long distance thing?How to deal with long distance relationships?
You have a bigger problem than the long distance thing. It's the whole going by yourself to meet him thing. He needs to come to you, not you to him. And you need to meet him with one of your friends. It is not good for you to be in an unfamiliar place by yourself. While you may think you know this guy, there is the chance that he's not as he's portrayed himself. If he really cares about you, he'll come out to see you.How to deal with long distance relationships?
I don't believe in long distance relationships.


I could never be in one, I need to be in my boyfriends arms almost every day(:
no yr waisting yr time.
Long distance relationships are bad for mature adults. Judging by your situation it looks like you are about at a 16 year old stage in life. Definitely look closer to home for friends.
Your 18 don't settle with a guy with baggage. People in there 30's do that.
ok ima tell u from experiance he is still young and he has his baby mama with him in the place he lives if he has a baby it means he proly needs sex and he is cheating on u hun get out now plus i know u like kids but u will end up takin care of someone elses baby so its up to u
wtf why would you do that after two months of talkin that is how girls get raped and yeah he has a friken kid at 25 how old is the kid 7??? retard much?
it could last if you want to make it last. relationships take work, and long distance relationships need extra care. if you mom feels that way, tell her he is a great guy and that you think she will agree if she gives him a chance, then invite her to stick around and the three of you can have lunch together so she can get to know him too. if that doesnt work, do any of your friends drive? get one of them to go out there with you. its safer to not meet him alone anyway. i hope you find a way.





if you both want it bad enough, then you do have the ability to hold out until one of you can get to the other. have faith in each other and it will work out in time.