How to deal with long distance relationship. Especially we havent met yet and here's this other guy also?

I met a guy thru the net. He is almost too good to be true, though havent met him in person yet. I dont fall for foreigners but he made a change on me. I have fallen for him. So kind, smart and interesting, But several times, his plans to meet me has been cancelled. Ive always asked him if he has changed his mnd, planning to break up with him, but he was very clear saying that he isnt changing his mind. He is sometimes away for like 5 days, %26amp; it drives me crazy, thinknig whats wrong. Then he comes back sending me a long letter, explaining things. I don't know if Im i just worrying a lot, or there is sth wrong with us.I don't know if it's right to end this soon. The thing is that i love him, and i dont like the guys who are courting me here.How to deal with long distance relationship. Especially we havent met yet and here's this other guy also?
First of all ask yourself the question are sure you are in love? Also the person you are in love with might be a totally different person in real life. So try not to get to involved in the relationship until you have met him and your sure you love him. But you have to take all things into consideration when your in these relationships like will it work out? Cause once hes met you when will be the next time you meet? Are you sure you are prepared for this type of awkward relationship? I have been in a long distance relationship and it is tough I would say turn back now unless you know it could work out. Other wise you will just end up getting hurt at the end of it.How to deal with long distance relationship. Especially we havent met yet and here's this other guy also?
well this is a virtual world where souls talk but not people..


how do u know wot kind of person he is?? dd u see a lot of his pics??


personally i met someone who seemed gorgeous and i met himon the internet... and erm... in person he was sooooo different and i was disappointed...


i would be suspicious maybe he is not wot u think he is!!!!
Online relationships are tricky, you can portray him as someone tottaly different to what he is in person.





Good luck.
The answer to your query is: with maturity.





And it sounds like you're in short supply of it right now.
ooo geeze how old are ??? i mean this guy could have a wife or wtv... and i dont think that he's worth ur time... ive heard of stories where guys meet women in other countries and flirt their way into like getting their citizenship in that country and then drop their ***- chances are that if ur fooling around with other guys than he's probably fooling around with other ppl as well- UPDATE- PLEASE READ- i know that it seems that alot of us are being harsh and mean but the thing is is that its the truth.... but please know that life will get better and u WILL move onand u WILL meet somebody new and someone whos more real!
If you have never met, there is no relationship. Long-distance or otherwise. You are not in love with him, because in order to be in love, there would have to be an actual person to be in love with. There is not. You are in love with some imaginary person that you have created in your mind. Why? Perhaps you are afraid of the real world. Perhaps you are too shy to go out and make real friends. Whatever the reason, the thing you need to ';deal with'; is not some imaginary long-distance relationship that does not exist, it's your unwillingness or inability to stop living in fantasy land. Please seek some counselling soon.
I think you should stop seeing this guy.





This guy is either married or has a girlfriend.





Internet relationships are not always what it seems. Take it from someone who knows.





If this guy disappears or makes excuses why he isn't on there internet for days at a ';time'; it's because he has a ';reason';...and it's usually another ';girl'; reason.





IF someone was interested in you...then they'd make the effort to talk to you all the time, talk on the phone, talk on CAM with each other....let you talk to friends / relatives of them......and also make plans for HIM to travel to see YOU.





And seeing you in like the space of a few WEEKS to a month.....(not a year or two years....)





You have instincts about something being wrong!! There is something wrong!! Trust your instincts!!!!





If you ignore you instincts, you'll be very very upset with yourself later down the track that you ignored them!..





This guy has something to hide, and he will keep letting you down....(well until he is girlfriend or wife is not around so he can meeet you)....then once he has met you....he can get a bit on the ';side';, then go back to his wife...and dump you. He wants you for his ';emotional' needs, while he goes back to his everyday ';reality';.





You don't love him...you just ';think'; you love him.





You can't love someone that you've never met. Sure you might feel you know him, and feel the ';love'; and that you ';connect'; and that you can talk about ';anything';...But you still haven't met him.





Reality is always going to be different in real life....you will be disappointed (unless your in denial)....





Please stop this relationship....OR make the demands that he meet you NEXT week...and HIM come to you.... IF he doesn't...then you know something is definitely wrong with him....he isn't committed....he doesn't want to upset his plans with his ';life'; mainly because he has something to hide...





Don't fall for it...please..





I've been there....done that...your talking to someone who knows the score and has seen it happened to lots of friends also besides myself.... don't be another victim.