i love my bf so much.im going back to my hometown,far from him.what should i do to stay positive?How to deal with long distance relationship?
Long Distance Relationship doesn’t work.
And if it does; it’s only for short period
Then it’s “de end”
However if you want to make it work between you two...
Try to meet up at least once a month
Email each other
Text each other with short messages
IM each other when he’s on-line
And things such......
* At times, Long Distance Relationship can test you; sensitively and your faithfulness.
Therefore, make yourself strong in order to make this relationship of yours last
Good Luck =)
How to deal with long distance relationship?
ur moving there?
take him with u!
long distance relationship dont work... you dont even know if hes cheating on you and he dont know if you're cheating on him... i just dont trust long distance relationship... move on with your life.. good luck
I was in a 3000 mile long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year. It was the hardest thing ever, but we stuck it out and made it work and now we are living together [[finally]].
The first thing you need to do is decide as a couple what your action plan is going to be. If you decide that you are going to make it work and stay together, then you both need to commit to it 100%. You can't approach this with a ';well, lets see how it goes'; attitude. Then, discuss how the dynamics of your relationship is going to change and lay down some ';ground rules.'; How often are you going to talk on the phone? How often are you going to see each other? Things like that.
To stay positive and keep the spirit alive, there are lots of things you can do...
#1: Do not EVER listen to anyone who pessimistically says, ';Long distance relationships never work.'; You don't need that negativity.
#2: Adopt this mindset, and repeat daily: Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be. Physical proximity has nothing to do with how good your relationship is. By overcoming this great challenge, you are only making yourselves stronger as a couple and more prepared to face other challenges in the future.
My boyfriend and I would mail things back and forth to each other. Our favorite: We had a scrapbook of our relationship [[which was just a .99 cent composition notebook from Walmart]] that had all our pictures in it. We would add to it when we were together, and when we were apart we would write love letters to each other in it and mail it back and forth.
You can find lots of creative little ideas for LDR's on the internet. Cheesy as they all are, they work.
Hope that helps! Good luck!
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